Good Guys do finish last!

[MrPerfect]

I remember growing up hearing that good guys finish last. After being on this earth for 32 years I have come to the conclusion that statement is correct. I have seen so many men be "too nice" to women only to be taken advantage of and be run over by them. I have even a victom of being to nice to a woman in my past and she gave me hell!

After I stopped giving a damn and doing what ever I wanted to do, but I was still repectedfull to the woman I was dating, she loved me to death! She complained from time to tome but she loved being with me. Even when the Ex picked up on my new found swagger she even tried to come back to me! LOL

So my question to the ladies is this, you all say you want a good man but I have seen so many of you get good men and then mess over them saying they are "TOO NICE"

I have also seen a bunch of ladies on here talking about how "weak" some men are. Honestly, I think most ladies are confused about what they really want in a man.

Bring it!

[HW2]

Preace my brother.....

[Yulaw]

Good post.

[Brownesugah]

I really do want a "good" man...but as a female, I need to be bringing something to the table too.

I hate when females run down a laundry list of what they want in a man and what he better have and what he needs to have...blah, blah, blah. Champagne dreams in a Malt Liquor fantasy.

I know I am very independent, I make a reasonable about of money, I live in a fairly nice house and can take care of myself. Doesn't mean I need some man to come and bring me up to some place I am not ready to go. My one criteria "LEGALLY, GAINFULLY employed". I don't care what his profession is, as long as it can be recognized by IRS, we can work together on the rest.

I have dated the nice guy, the thug, the player, the preacher...They all were different but I found myself comparing them to one another and trying to get them to measure up to something that they weren't cut out to be.

Give me honesty, respect and appreciation and I will return the same to you. My most valuable assest that I have is my time and if you waste it I can't get it back. But if we savor every minute that we are together as it is your last time I will treat you like the king you deserve to be.

Okay, so I am a rare breed old head.

[HW2]

Female friend of mine that I dated off and on early in my 20's wanted to hook me up with a co-worker/ friend. We met over my friends house and talked to her about 2 hours. You know this girl had the nerve to tell my friend, that I was to nice and not hard enough for her.....

[Brownesugah]

That's a women that is clueless...why even sit and talk to you for 2 hours.

I went out with a guy...I had a great time...we talked and laughed and I had a really good time...we mutually agreed that we would go out again...now get this, I am NOT chasing any man, I give you two chances and then I move on...I haven't totally given up on him but he has to learn the time value principle for me.

[HW2]

When I talked to my friend couple of weeks ago. I asked her how the girl was doing?? Fed up w/ her baby daddy now. I asked her was he a tug !! She said yes, and she unhappy....I told her to tell her I said WHATS UP......in a smart ass way !!

[Brownesugah]

some women just don't know when the good one has sliped away. they reather have one to treat them like trash and not the one that will treat you like a queen.

I tell guys up front don't wine and dine me in month one and by month 3 you are acting like an ass...be real, be yourself...if you pick your teeth do it so I know and won't be embarassed when you do it.

I laugh at girls that eat like birds and laugh at his jokes on the first date and then WHAM 3 months later he is looking at her crazy...Be yourself so he can know what he is getting into...the first 30 minutes tells a lot about a person but the first 3 months is a major eye opener.

[HW2]

Be yourself !! So if a fart you want mind...KEEPING IT REAL !!

[Brownesugah]

Give me some notice...that's a natural body function...I mean don't be nasty about it...don't sit on my head and fart...